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Excerpts from my Journal | 04

November 26, 2014

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I didn't tell him that the reason I went out last night with him was because I knew it was a situation I would normally have avoided: a room full of people I don't know, making small talk abound; a night that didn't even begin until 9:30pm, and in this case didn't end until 1:30am when I collapsed into bed.

I didn't tell him that I went last night because I wanted to prove to myself that I could do it, do it well, and make it out alive.

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I can't recall if it was last night or this morning, but I was laying in bed and thought: I feel as though we're different people now. I feel like I can't relate to her the way I used to; I thought we'd at least always have that. I'm trying to recall what we have in common, beyond motherhood, but I'm drawing a blank. 

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I read in a book the other day that too many people feel they go through their lives not really living it, rather, simply existing. Reading that was like a punch in the stomach. "That's me," I thought. "That's exactly how I feel." And after I caught my breath I thought, ok,now that I've said it, what can I do about it?

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So here it is, the truth: I'm too hard on myself. I can't be everything for everyone and I can't sacrifice what I want it order to make everyone else happy.

I'm a good mother. I may be impatient at times and need time away from DJ, but I am a good mother.

Stop being so hard on yourself, Rachel.

You are a good mother.

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As I collapsed onto the bed in tears, all I could think was: this is the second time I've cried this week and it's only Wednesday.

xo,
rdg
Excerpts from my journal, inspired by Ronnie.

5 comments:

  1. I hope your week got better. What book did you read? It sounds like a must read!

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    1. I can't recall the name of the book unfortunately ... that entry was from months ago :(

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  2. These are my favorites of all your great posts. So raw!

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    1. Thank you, Carrie!

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  3. I recognise this so much! I also have to tell myself I'm a good mother from time to time. Thanks for being so hounest.
    hugs Ing

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